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This can involve the psychological as well as the physical aspects of BDSM, and can be softcore to hardcore. This means that the submissive gives permission to their Dominant to do these activities to them, and both partners are aware of the boundaries and agree to them before play. In bondage scenarios within BDSM, a Dominant might tie up or otherwise restrain a submissive's body parts as a form of control, and may then perform other acts on the submissive while they are restrained.

The bondage may also be an end to itself, such as in the case of Shibari art, for the submissive's pleasure of being bound. Couple privilege is not a negative phenomenon in and of itself, but it may reinforce a hierarchy that already exists within the relationship and have negative effects on their new partner s and the new relationship s. In open relationships, to ensure equality for all involved, it is important that the already-established couple acknowledges that this privilege exists and does not take it for granted or dismiss their advantage.

An example of couple privilege in swinging is when a couple has been together for many years before deciding to open their relationship to have a Threesome with a new sex partner; but once finding this new playmate, the couple treats them as a toy or tool with which to fulfill the couple's fantasies, rather than acknowledging the needs and desires of their new playmate. In polyamory, couple privilege can be even more pronounced than in swinging relationships. In the worst of cases, established couples give their new partners a list of rules in a "take-it-or-leave-it" way that completely deprioritizes their new partner's needs, desires, and own boundaries.

This may include, for instance, a couple that is interested in having threesomes with other people; a couple who dates other people separately outside of their relationship; an individual who is open to dating more than one person at a time. Essentially, using the term "Open" simply means that a person is or may be interested in the concept of a relationship or union that falls outside the boundaries of traditional monogamy which means a relationship with only one other person.

Cheating CAN happen within open relationships when one or more partners violate the ly agreed-upon boundaries of their relationship. There is no ONE right way to be open or have an open relationship; different people and relationships may have different boundaries, and as long as those work for them and everyone agrees upon these boundaries and is honest about what they are doing, open relationships can be healthy and fulfilling for all those involved.

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Find hookups, threesomes and moresomes today! Connect with members near you with features like live video streaming, local parties and clubs, instant messaging, speed dating, and advanced search. This website uses cookies to improve your experience. This is a list of words and descriptions that you may encounter and are meant to help you navigate swinger relationships, open relationships, polyamory, other forms of consensually non-monogamous relationships, as well as BDSM, kink and fetish scenes. See also Cannabis. This is usually done to help ease the intensity of the submissive's experience and soothe them.

Aftercare can be different for different people and is usually dependent on the submissive's individual needs and can be of varying durations from minutes to hours or days afterward. This might not necessarily mean that the individuals participating in age play do have a ificant age difference. In age play, participants might use names such as "little," "little girl," "little boy," to ify the younger participant; "Daddy," "Mommy," or other terms may be used for the older participant.

Age play might include non-sexual activities such as playtime, bedtime, homework, etc. Importantly, anal plugs have a flared base that prevents the toy from getting lost within the anal cavity and ensures safe removal. Decorative anal plugs can have a jewel or tail at the base. This usually consists of using devices of increasing thicknesses and girths such as butt plugs to "stretch" the anal cavity and make it easier for another person or device to penetrate them.

Anal training should be done with caution and with the proper toys and devices to prevent pain and damage to the sensitive tissues within the anus. Some people may consider asexuality to be their sexual orientation, while others describe asexuality as an absence of sexual orientation. Asexuality can mean different things to different people. Asexual individuals are fully capable of creating and maintaining healthy romantic relationships with others.

Within the open lifestyle, people who are "situationally bisexual," meaning that given a certain scenario or person, they may be interested in playing with someone of the same gender and this can also fall into this bi-curious category. This can be done with the intention of performing sexual acts on the submissive, but sometimes bondage can be an end in itself because the submissive enjoys being bound or as an art form e. For instance, a Brat might say things like, "make me. This can be done within the context of BDSM or kink play, but may also be used outside of those scenarios.

Typically, the Dominant, or the person who is asphyxiating the breathless individual or submissive, will carefully cover the person's mouth and nose and suffocate them, or choke them by applying pressure to the carotid artery in their neck. Because asphyxiation is inherently dangerous, breath play is done with the utmost caution and requires understanding the limits of a person's physical and psychological well-being to ensure that it is done safely.

Breath play can also be practiced solo, without a partner, and this is termed "autoerotic asphyxiation. In a sexual context, bukkake refers to the act of multiple men ejaculating on one person's body at the same time, typically in the context of Group Sex or Gangbang scenarios. See also Gokkun. See also Hotwifing. In some cases, butt plugs may be used decoratively and may have a jewel, tail, or other decorative elements to entice their partner s. See also Anal Training and Sex Toys. Caning is usually used for discipline purposes but can also be done as a warm-up to more intense impact play using other implements.

Cannabis has various mental and physical effects, depending on the type of strain used, the quantity, and the delivery method e. The main psychoactive component of cannabis is Tetrahydrocannabinol THC , along with dozens of other cannabinoids, including cannabidiol CBD. Individuals seeking to use cannabis before playing with others sexually should take caution as well as inform their partners of their cannabis use.

It is also important to note that if a person is intoxicated with cannabis, as with alcohol or any other intoxicants, they may not be able to consent to sexual activities. See also Friendly. See also Fuck Friend and Friend with Benefits. CHEATING Refers to when an individual in a relationship transgresses by breaking a ly agreed-upon boundary between them and the other individual s in the relationship. Cheating is often thought of as being sexual in nature, but emotional cheating can also occur in relationships.

Cheating is not limited to monogamous relationships and can also happen within open relationships; in these cases, a person may violate a boundary of their open relationship, such as dating or having sex with someone who is off-limits, becoming emotionally involved with a person when only sexual relationships were permitted within the primary relationship, and so forth. For example, someone who was ased a female when they were born i. Gender is a fluid concept and can change over time. This can be the case for people who are high-profile or whose professional reputation, culture, religion, or social group do not permit them to be open about their lifestyle.

Some cock rings also have an attachment, for instance, "rabbit ears" deed to provide extra stimulation to their partner's clitoris during sex. Vibrating cock rings and remote-controlled cock rings can be helpful tools for couples to increase intimacy in their sex lives. Note: cock rings must be put on while the wearer's penis is not erect. In BDSM, collaring a submissive can be very ceremonial and ificant. Compersion is not necessary for open relationships to work.

A person might experience feelings of compersion for their partner in some scenarios and with some partners, but may experience jealousy at other times. Consensual or Ethical Non-Monogamy means that all the partners involved are aware that their relationships are not exclusive, and there are other partners involved.

Includes Polyamory and Swingers. This is not the same as Cheating, in which one partner is not aware of their partner's activities. Consent can be temporary and a person can revoke it at any time for any reason without the need to give any explanation for their decision. For instance, Person A can give Person B consent to kiss them on one occasion, but on another occasion Person A may tell Person B they do not want them to kiss them. There is no such thing as "non-consensual sex;" there is only consensual sex, and everything else that is done non-consensually is considered sexual assault.

This includes couples who are dating, married, cohabiting, or who commonly play together in certain scenarios e. Being a couple does not necessitate a monogamous relationship; couples can also be Open and in some form of Consensually Non-Monogamous relationship which may involve other partners.

CUCKOLD Cuckolding is the practice of a couple in which the male partner wants to watch his partner have sexual relations with another individual or several individuals without his direct sexual involvement. In this case, the male cuckold acts as a Voyeur and is often but not always present to witness his partner engaging in sexual acts with the third person or more people. This is done with the male's Consent not the same as a man witnessing his wife Cheating without his consent. The female version of this is called "Cuckqueaning" or "Cuckqueanry," in which the female plays the role of the submissive who is witnessing their partner engaging in these acts with another person or several people.

See also Cuckold. See Cuckold for more. Cuffs can be attached to tables, beds, poles, etc. In a hogtie, a person's ankles and wrists are bound together behind their back. CUM A commonly-used slang term for a person's ejaculate or sexual fluids.

Cumming may refer to either or both the action of climaxing as well as ejaculating. Fluid Play can often involve cum. In some cases, others may refer to someone as a cum slut in a derogatory way, although enjoying any consensual sexual practice is nothing to be ashamed of. Often known as a form of Foreplay prior to penetrative sex, cunnilingus can help increase a person's sexual arousal to make it more likely for them to have an Orgasm during penetrative sex. Cunnilingus can and should be performed as an end to itself for the receiver's sexual pleasure. Anyone of any gender identity or sexual orientation can be demisexual.

It might be difficult for a demisexual person to feel fulfilled within the Swinging lifestyle because their need for emotional intimacy is often discouraged within the swinging community, which usually focuses mostly on the physically sexual aspects of relationships rather than emotional connections. DILDO A Sex Toy that may resemble a phallus made out of silicone, rubber, plastic, metal, or glass that can be used for sexual stimulation, often for the purposes of penetration.

Some dildos vibrate. A double-ended dildo can be used to achieve dual stimulation to penetrate two individuals simultaneously. A strap-on dildo can be worn with a harness by someone with or without a penis for the purpose of penetrating another person.

This is done by the Dominant a. It can involve everything from verbal commands e. It is a subset of BDSM. See BDSM for more details. In an Airtight, double penetration is involved as well as simultaneous oral penetration and often happens in Group Sex or Orgy scenarios.

When dressed for entertainment purposes, a Drag Queen also assumes their character's identity during their act. A Drag King is a typically female-presenting person assuming a masculine aesthetic. Examples of edge play include Breath Play AKA breathplay, which is erotic asphyxiation , knife play, fire play, wax play, and blood play, among other types of risky activities. Safety measures physical as well as psychological are crucial to consider for all kinds of high-risk play.

Because of the emotional and physical intensity of edge play, Aftercare is absolutely recommended as it is also needed after any kind of BDSM play to ensure the physical and psychological well-being of anyone involved in the scene. EDGING A sexual technique involving denying and delaying someone of their orgasm; bringing a person close to climax but not allowing them to orgasm. Edging can often lead to a buildup of pleasure and intensify the person's resulting climax if an orgasm does arise afterward. Edging is more commonly used in BDSM scenarios as a means of controlling a submissive's pleasure but can also be used in any sexual situation.

Not to be confused with Edge Play. Electric play is a Kink that can be explored within the BDSM community as a technique used by Dominants on their submissives to control their pleasure. This kind of kink requires knowing and understanding the limits of a person's safe physical and psychological thresholds of the voltage of the electrical currents and the areas of the body on which electric play can be safely used.

Contrary to popular belief, electric play can be quite stimulating and pleasurable when done properly and safely. When a person with a penis is unable to achieve an erection. This could be due to physiological e. Oral medications and topical treatments may be very helpful in treating erectile dysfunction in people with penises. Erectile dysfunction is more common than you might expect. If you are experiencing erectile dysfunction, know that there is no shame in having ED! Consult a medical professional as soon as possible for treatment options and to ensure that the erectile dysfunction is not a result of a more serious underlying condition.

While exhibitionists may be best known to enjoy in-person viewing of their sexual escapades, exhibitionism can also include sharing erotic and explicit photos and videos online. See also Voyeur. This form of Fluid Play may or may not be coupled with Snowballing, in which the person then spits or shares the semen with the person whose anus out of which they just sucked the semen. More colloquially known as a BJ or Blow Job.

Fetishes can be explored safely and are not harmful to a person's mental health in and of itself, and are nothing to be ashamed of. FIGGING A sexual practice in which a piece of peeled ginger root is inserted into the anus or vagina, which can create a burning sensation.

When done properly and with the right preparation, fisting can be extremely pleasurable and stimulate a person's erogenous areas that are often hard to reach and stimulate via conventional toys and penetration. Fisting can be a very intense experience for the receiver, who requires mental and physical preparation prior to getting fisted, ensuring the person getting fisted is well lubricated and relaxed.

Communication between the receiver and giver is absolutely necessary to ensure a pleasurable and safe time for everyone involved. Fisting can be dangerous and painful if not performed correctly e. Flagellation can be used in BDSM scenarios, during which the submissive is flagellated by their Dominant as a means of Discipline.

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